Worrying is using your imagination to create something you do not want.
If you were born where they were born, and you were taught what they were taught, you’d believe what they believe.
— Abraham Lincoln
We’ve all been there. I order my small black coffee, hand the barista my debit card, grab the pen to sign off, and halt at the gratuity line. Am I supposed to add something here? Am I cheap if I don’t? Can I just pretend I already tossed some change in the tip jar? I don’t know—and it’s far too much indecision to deal with before my cup of the black morning elixir.
Any American old enough to read a menu knows we’re expected to tip as our server politely clears away our meal at restaurants. We feel confident about what’s expected in these situations (15 to 20 percent, in case anyone needs reminding). But what about today’s alternative eating-out situations — beyond the confines of the standard sit-down restaurant?
1000 Awesome Things is a website that contains just that – A thousand awesome things. Things like:
- The smell and feel of bedsheets that dried in the sun
- Somehow waking up at the right time even though you forgot to set your alarm clock
- Digging a hole in your mashed potatoes and filling it up with gravy
- That little hole at the top of your sink that prevents it from overflowing
- The Childhood Super Jump
- When you get in the car and notice someone filled up the tank
- When characters in movies visit a place you know
- When a work friend becomes an outside-of-work friend
- The moment of anticipation just before the first kiss
Visit 1000 Awesome Things
There’s a website out there that gives us hope. GivesMeHope It celebrates the little things in life that we experience that give us hope. Here are a few entries:
There’s a girl on the swim team that is really mean to my daughter.
The other day that girl needed a ride to practice and called my daughter to take her. I was surprised when she picked up the keys and got directions.
When I asked why, she said that everyone needs help sometimes.
Her forgiveness GMH.
I was at Chipotle Mexican Grill to pick up dinner.
When it was my turn to pay, the guy who was making my burrito said: “This one’s on me; you look really sad, I want you to be happy.”
I was really caught off guard.
It was one of those unique, surprising moments that remind me of what people can do for others. It GMH.
I was walking my dog when he saw a cat and ran after it. I couldn’t find him.
An hour later, I got a phone call. A man said he had been chasing my dog and finally caught him.
When the man showed up at my house, he was wearing his military uniform…
and missing an arm and a leg. He GMH.
Check out GivesMeHope